Abuse in relationships
It’s normal to argue or fall out with your partner, but if someone hurts you or makes you feel bad regularly it’s not okay.
Abuse in relationships is about one person trying to have power over someone else. It’s the same for both adults and teenagers.
If you feel frightened, if you change your behaviour, clothes or friends to please your partner, or if you avoid saying or doing things in case they react badly this is not okay. It is abusive and controlling.
You don’t have to be hit to be abused. Domestic abuse is not always violent. Emotional, psychological, and financial control is also abuse. Abuse is also being pressurised or manipulated into sexual acts when you don't want to.
Tell someone you trust if you‘re worried about your relationship.
It’s not your fault. We understand and believe you.
Abuse and violence at home
- Have you ever seen or heard one of your parents or carers hurting the other one?
- Has anyone hurt or frightened you at home?
- Do you feel scared of someone who you live with?
If the answer is ‘yes’ to any of these questions, you can contact RISE at 01273 622 822 and we will try to help you.